When my business first took a big hit from Google’s algorithm update, I asked two close friends for their take and ideas. Other than that, I tried to figure it out on my own. But as the problems got worse, I reached out to more people. I talked to some auditors. I had friends who work at SEO companies send me suggestions.
Eventually, I started applying for jobs. I’d never done it before, so there, too, I needed help. My girlfriend helped me make a pretty decent CV, and I asked friends here and there whether they knew of any roles. I changed my LinkedIn settings to “actively looking” to get more notifications.
Recently, I got hit with some nasty, unexpected tax bills on top of everything, and so once again, I’m doubling down on asking for more help. I’m asking for help from my tax advisor. I’m asking for emotional support from my family. And I’m asking yet more people for job recommendations.
Like many people who pride themselves on their discipline and accomplishments, I’m not wired to ask for help. It feels uncomfortable and embarrassing. But I’m doing it anyway—because those are just emotions, and when you’re in a proper crisis, asking for more helping hands is the right thing to do.
You’re not walking alone. It’s okay to ask for more hands.