Every week, I have one idea or two that I wish I could hold on to forever. It could be a simple reminder like “Immediately accept what you can’t change” or an empowering concept like Seth Godin’s “Unlimited bowling.” Whatever the helpful tool, I’d like to keep it front and center in my mind at all times. I know that if I could, I’d benefit from it immensely.
But no matter how many visual cues I might add to my computer, my calendar, or around the house, nothing lasts forever. The brain gets used to everything — and fast. I’ve tried many times. Even the most colorful wallpaper fades into the background eventually. Then, I’ll barely notice it.
Maybe, this is just how the human mind filters for the very best ideas. The more powerful the mental image, the longer it’ll stay around. Only a handful will be with us for years, but those that prevail will come to define our lives. Therefore, trying to choose our principles with intent is a fight worth fighting. It’s a hard task for a reason.
Struggling against bad habits isn’t special. Everyone has their own, uniquely shaped stones littering their way. The question is do we give in to those habits in the long run, or do we work hard to claim our best selves? Will we only learn to wiggle through between the stones, or will we actually clear the path so others may follow our example?
Everyone who ends up climbing a meaningful mountain has demons that’ll travel with them all the way to the top. In such dubious company, you’ll need a strong light to stay on track. If you want to go far, look out for pitfalls, sure — but above all, hold on to the good stuff.