I’m a Student, and I Feel That I’m Wasting My Life—How Can I Change This?

Help just one person. Then do it again.


Right now, I could tell you how it’s not too late for you. How you’re still so young and have lots of time.

I could tell you about habits. About morning routines and reading and waking up early and meeting new people and getting fit.

I could tell you about success. About money, about fame, about entrepreneurship. About winning big.

I could paint a picture, a vision of your future self so grand your eyes will light up and sparkle. Maybe you’d start making it a reality. But likely you won’t. Because you’re stuck in this hole and it’s just too hard.

So I will do none of that.

Because I know the only thing that’s helped me when I was really, really down in the dumps was this: Help. Someone. Else.

  • Call one of your few friends. Help them with their homework.
  • Hold the door for someone.
  • Give somebody a hand.
  • Share your coffee.
  • Smile at a stranger.
  • Say hello.

Right now, all of the changes you can (and hopefully) will make one day mean nothing, nothing, compared to the impact of hearing the words “thank you.”

A “thank you” is a smile, a warm ray of light, a quark of positive energy.

A “thank you” is worth a million changes.

Whatever you do, help one person. And if what you do helps just one person, you do it again.

Nik

Niklas Göke writes for dreamers, doers, and unbroken optimists. A self-taught writer with more than a decade of experience, Nik has published over 2,000 articles. His work has attracted tens of millions of readers and been featured in places like Business Insider, CNBC, Lifehacker, and many others. Nik has self-published 2 books thus far, most recently 2-Minute Pep Talks. Outside of his day job and daily blog, Nik loves reading, video games, and pizza, which he eats plenty a slice of in Munich, Germany, where he resides.