George Lee may not have been part of Bruce Lee’s bloodline, but he was definitely family. As Bruce’s equipment manager—and, more importantly, maker—he forged dozens of specialized training items based on Bruce’s ideas and requests.
As a result of their close relationship, George received many letters from Bruce in his lifetime. Having read most of those letters, one pattern stands out to me: Not once does Bruce criticize George’s work. Whatever his next commission, however many tweaks he asks for, all you’ll ever read is praise for George’s creations. “Magnificent!” “Fantastic!” “Great!”
In one letter, Bruce yet again asks for changes to the latest devices. Here’s how it begins:
“George,
Remember the kicking and punching padded boards you made for me—well, after using them for a while I’ve come to many improvements. When you have time, can you make an extra kicking board and punching board for me? Your kicking board is tops for kicking, no heavy bag can replace it. The accompanying sheets will describe the added improvements.”
Can you see it? Not one word of objection. Only praise—and some ideas for the next iteration. The message is clear: It’s enough to try again. Harsh words, denunciation—we don’t need those to get better. “This was a good attempt, but we can still do better. Let’s try one more time with some twists.” These two sentences can fuel a lifetime of effortless, joyful learning. Bruce was the living embodiment of this attitude. It’s worth emulating.
As long as you still want to improve, look back without judgement, then begin the next round. Life is one long game, and it’s ours to win—if only we keep leveling up.
