Take More Off the Top

On the first visit to a new hairdresser, I’m always worried they’ll cut off too much. “Just a little shorter,” I’ll say. Most of the time, that leads to me complaining two weeks later: “I should have told them to cut more. Now I need to make the next appointment soon.”

As soon as I’ve seen them do an okay job, however, I’ll remember: It’s better to have my hair too short for a week or two than to need to pay for another cut three weeks later. My hair grows fast, and the way I wear it, one centimeter more or less barely makes a difference. So I might as well tell the hairdresser to be generous in cutting!

My routine with my current one is well-established. They start, shave the sides, and indicate with two fingers in the front: “This much?” My answer is always the same: “You can do a little more.”

Where you have a lot to give, don’t worry about giving too much. Chances are, your stock will replenish faster than you expect it to—and even if not, karma will find a way to redeem your points. Take more off the top.

Nik

Niklas Göke writes for dreamers, doers, and unbroken optimists. A self-taught writer with more than a decade of experience, Nik has published over 2,000 articles. His work has attracted tens of millions of readers and been featured in places like Business Insider, CNBC, Lifehacker, and many others. Nik has self-published 2 books thus far, most recently 2-Minute Pep Talks. Outside of his day job and daily blog, Nik loves reading, video games, and pizza, which he eats plenty a slice of in Munich, Germany, where he resides.